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DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
519 posts
12/29/2017 10:51 pm
My Men of the Year~2017

Thank you to my newest friend, Passionategaybtm, who is also my latest watcher. Thank you so much! Thank you for the email, Akl1234! Very much appreciated and Happy New Year!!! Thank you for flirting with me, Grecoromano75! Cumlover401, thank you for giving me a little part of your Christmas. I like you even more now!!! Hell, a lot of you guys gave me part of your Christmases. Thank you so much! I feel special!!!

I actually had a party on Christmas! I ate. I drank. I smoked. I cooked. I cleaned. I received a lot of great stuff. I had a damn good time and did absolutely nothing sexual during the affair. Okay, I briefly recycled a guy for about minutes, and there was a really hot guy there. We talked quite a bit, but we knew we wouldn't be a good fit, so we shared a bottle of wine between his conquests. I did what turned out to be the best way for me to spend this particular holiday. I spent time with Sawyer and Stephane, via Facebook, as well as stripper Dan, little Mikey and my exes, John and Michael. I spent time on the ph with very sexy mates, Jeff and Jeremiah. And through my underwear collection and my photo albums, I spent time with my dead husbands, very special friends, a lot of wonderful, beautiful guys, and amazing night stands, Lester, Kelly and Larry. Believe me, it was hot holiday!


And now, my top ten lists of sorts...

10] Trent~ a sweet neighborhood guy who had a thing for both Sawyer and me. Not much to look at, but a very sweet older guy with a nice cock. He would bring drinks and hang out with us. Good guy!

9] Brandon~ attractive, Indian guy who would be the way Sawyer and I enjoyed this year. He was fun, but then wanted to split us up. Sawyer lost interest fairly quickly, but it took me a bit to decide he was just too out there for me.

8] Tony~ gorgeous, hairy Italian guy who use to come regularly to the parties, and actually wanted to date me. Unfortunately, there was an embarrassing incident during of our times together, and although I told him it was cool, I haven't seen or heard from him since. Damn shame!

7] Billy~ you should remember Billy, the neighborhood handyman I worked out a deal with. If you ever get to read about our last encounter, you might be able to understand how he made the list. Read any of my post with Billy in the title, and it is likely to be him!

6] Robbie~ the hot neighborhood guy I've d a couple of massages on. I did him a non-related favor that pretty much sealed our friendship, and then I caught him checking me out, which pretty much sealed out mutual interest.

5] John~ you are more likely to remember him as the celebrity massage, as I've written about him twice this year. And if you have read those, you will remember that he is an ex, who lived with me for about before his acting took off.

4] Mikey~ an absolutely adorable guy who came in for a massage, but we have been communicating every since. He sends me pictures and we talk about his life. He is now of the top contenders to replace Sawyer in 2018. This guy is awesome, inside and out, and all over!!!

3] Stripper Dan~ remember there are Dans now, so I have to differentiate. My ex, the stripper I dated for , who has come back in my life in a big way. Despite his physical changes, he is still the guy I was crazy about back then. Hopefully, our friendship will continue to grow in the new year!

2] Stephane~ since Sawyer moved and he and his wife are already having issues, we have been spending a lot of quality time together. Hstly, it doesn't quite feel like it did the first time around, but if we can get that magic back, it could be awesome!

1] Sawyer~ of course! What can I say? He is incredible when he wants to be, and since we are making the most of the time we have together, there just are no words to how wonderful he has been. I just wish we could figure out a way to be together more. Damn you, Nashville!

I also made a list of my guys here, if you are interested. Warning...there are a few ties in here!!!


10} Daxter5 & Christo67851000~ Both of these fine local boys have been offered free massage sessions and still haven't come in. It really gets me because the first and I actually know another, and the second and I have communicated several times. I'm going to give them until my birthday to come in....your free birthday presents to me! After that, you will ! lol

9} Gloryholefreak~ Texas has a special place in my heart as far as long distance and online friends go! There is a very special trucker who use to see me every week. There is a couple that my second husband and I use to spend part of vacations with. And there was a very dear and sexy friend who came close to being number ! And now, there is this long haired, sexy freak!

8} Cumlover401~ of my first everything on here, fan, friend, flirts. A beautiful man from down under I ought to get on top of! Just kidding...kind of! lol

7} Just_needing_fun & Wanting_it_now~ Both of you sexy guys have had my attention for quite some time. I consider this my dark meat sandwich and you are my flipping pieces of bread. But all you guys seem to do is look, and I have given you both the options of free massages as well, especially the local . Well, I'm going to keep looking too, so let me know when you want to do something about it! lol

6} Heik0173~ My European sports guy. You have been nothing but awesome since we started communicating. You may actually be my number fan with the pictures I think. I really hope this trip works out better than the last , and I really look forward to continuing our correspondence.

5} OnDaFence~ of my first friends, my tutor and mentor where the blogs are concerned, and instrumental with the all the pictures on my blog. Not too hard to look at or read about either! I can not say it enough...thank you so much for EVERYTHING!!!

4} Mral65~ My version of a mystery man. Thank you so much for your patronage and your support. And your great pictures. You need to share more, so use your blog...resolution for 2018!!! I promise to read it!!!

3} Bjhogan~ Probably my biggest blog fan here. Thank you so much for your encouragement and your input, your ideas and for sharing your stories, first as comments in my blog, and now in a blog of your own! Thank you so much for all your and support!

2} Hungr4yungr~ My strongest advocate and supporter of my relationship with Sawyer, quite possibly my first watcher, fan and friend. You have been nothing but awesome and amazing since we first crossed paths. Your wisdom, support and friendship have become of the best gifts I have gotten from this site. Thank you so much!

1} Akl1234~ Thank you for the laughs, the friendship and your patronage. This has been a banner year for me, and where the massage business is concern, you have been a big factor. I've branched into other things, come up with new packages and ideas, and restored my hope in the local guys on this site! Thank you so much for all you have d for me and my business!


mral65 58M
366 posts
1/1/2018 1:53 pm

Happy new year! Thankyou for the kind words, they are appreciated. As for the blog, we'll have to see. I tend to be a rather private person, probably because of living in a rural small town where everyone seems to know more of what I am doing than I do. Couple that with being gay in a small town that is quite homophobic does make me want to keep my life even more private. Best wishes to you


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/6/2018 9:34 am:
Happy New Year!!! I hope it is a great one for you, really!

Now about this blog, you know, it can be fictional. It can be about your fantasies. It can be more practical, like about politics, or pop culture. I wish I could write another one, as gay pop culture has become a new field of interest and familiarity to me! Or it could a rant. Perhaps best of all, it could give you a regular opportunity to get the gay out sometime.

One way or the other, I look forward to learning more about you in the coming year. To a great 2-0-1-8!!!

bjhogan 66M
1950 posts
1/7/2018 7:30 am

WOW !! YIPPEE !! i MADE the TOP THREE !! thanks ! and HAPPY NEW QUEEER ! oops NEW YEAR for mrrail65 ,! I UNDERSTAND how you feel !! i too live in a small redneck town ! pop. 5500 ! i was QUITE the TALK when i came OUT after my 2nd divorce in 08 !! or rather ,, i was OUTED by a GAY LOVER i met here on O.P!! " BARKLEY " and i went to high school together ! so when we met for a date ! he was PLEASANTLY SUPRIZED that i now PLAY for TEAM GAAAAAAY !! we fucked and sucked like horny teenagers ! that first nite and many others ! best sexxx ever ! " BARKLEY " has ALWAYS been OUT & OPEN even in high school when gays were treated harshly ! so he could NOT wait to TELL HIS FRIENDS ! both GAY & STR8T that we dating/fucking ! of course ME being the MACHO JOCK ! LADIES MAN back in the DAY ! it was alllllll over town how i have TURNED into a FAG !! i still get ASKED that QUESTION !! WHEN & WHY ? i now only answer ,, i have ALWAYS been GAY !! it did not happen over nite ! i was not UPSET BARKLEY OUTED ME i was in fact relieved to no longer live a lie ! and as your comment ,,, EVERY ONE SEEMS TO KNOW MORE OF WHAT I"M DOING THAN I DO " that is also TRUE here !! my FEMALE CO-WORKER of MANY YEARS !! was one of the first to HEAR & QUIZZED ME !! at first i denied it ! but over time i owned up to it ! and WE TALK OPENLY of MY HOMOSEXUALITY !! most recently ,,, i had SOME work done on my CUMputer by HER ex boyfriend !!! SHE is ONE of THOSE who thinks FAGS wanna SEDUCE EVERY MAN !! while yes ,, he's not bad looking ,,, SHE TOLD ME ,, i may not be ABLE TO HANDLE HIM !! and i knew where she was going ! when they DATED ! she told ME he was HUNG ! 9in. !! & it HURT when he FUCKED HER !! ,,, so naturaly she implied i would not be able to take him all the way ! as SHE has HEARD I"M A BOTTOM !! damn ! there are no secrets here ! i asked how SHE KNEW ? & she SAID " BARKLEY has told EVERYONE !! my co-worker and him run i different social circles ! and yet she has heard i'm a cock sucking ! bottom ! oh well ! i just laughed it off ! no denying the truth ! so just to showed her size is not a problem ,,, i DEEPTHROATED a BANNANA in FRONT OF HER the look on her face ! PRICELESS ! wished i had taken a PIC !!


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/8/2018 12:41 am:
Thrilled it all worked out for you. I personally believe that people should come out in their own time. And when I say that, I mean that they not only be ready to do it for themselves, but also be prepared and ready for the repercussions. I came out at twelve, and although I was personally ready to lose friends, fight if I had to, I wasn't prepared to get kicked out of the house, and legally I couldn't get a new place or work more than a certain number of hours a week, etc. It worked out for me eventually, but it also made me an adamant proponent for advocating and assisting gay youth. No one should come out until they are ready, and prepared to do so! And I will move high and low to make sure no other gay youth has to travel the same coming out route I did!

I hope you are updating your blog, by the way. The last few times I was there, it was old news! lol