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DandR4hands4men 48M/47M
329 posts
1/8/2018 1:26 am
What Kind of Party should we have?

In addition to the strip poker day and two strip poker nights I personally host each month, I co-host several parties for an older couple of guys. It use to be six or seven a month, but now they are down to four. Not a real problem, but they don't want to go less than four.

The problem is, what kind of party should it be? Currently, they host a daytime orgy, a nightly orgy and cock-sucking party a month. They tried a bi-sexual party but only bisexual men showed up and there was only men to play with so they stopped coming. We changed it to a mixed gender party, YUCK! and over nine months, only two ladies showed up, and one only stayed for fifteen minutes. They tried at my suggestion a massage party for a few months, but the guys hated the rules, which were designed to keep things fair for everyone. After all, if you left after you got your massage, the last massages wouldn't be the same as the first. And then most of the guys who came wanted a massage, but didn't know how to give one.

The main issue is, lately, we have been making it a jack off party, and the attendance is pathetic. Never more than five guys and three of them are the hosts. So we want to change it out and replace it with something else. But what?

I have a couple of ideas, but I want to get a feel for them. And we are definitely interested in other guys's input, especially those in the homosexual group scene. Is there some fetish out there we should be explore? Is there some sort of party we are not aware of? Body part that should be focused on or probed more into? By the way, we have considered a cross-dressing party, a sex toy party, an aged theme party, another strip poker night and even a Dick & Balls party, which to me is like a cock-sucking party but you have to get the balls too. Even a rimming party has been discussed, but most guys just don't get their asses clean enough for that. By the way, the age themed party sounded good, but the thought was Daddy-Son, and my other two hosts would be Grandpas!

My other two ideas were 1) A Best "X" Man Night, where all the attendees are eventually strapped in the form of an "X" between the living room and the dining room. Then when the timer starts, everyone not strapped in attack the "X" man, with the goal being to get him off in the shortest amount of time. Kissing, sucking, fucking rimming, toes, nipples, armpits, whatever. Nothing is off limits until he cums. Then he comes out and the next one enters, and so on and so forth, until everyone one has came. The guy who held out the longest get a prize.

And 2) A Nudie Game Night when we play two or three games, with the object is to have fun getting naked, and then you get your freak on! My favorite would have to be Paper Scattergories followed by a few hands of poker. Scattergories is done on paper for strategic reasons as well as to give everyone at least on category they can work with. We don't need to get into the rules and such, but it is fun, the answers can be hilarious and after the the first game, the lowest scoring half strips their top half, and the lowest scoring half loses their bottom half. Anyone who still has clothes on then moves to the poker table, and strip poker resumes until we have a winner who gets his wish...with a twist of course! But this could be done with any two board games, or trivia games with wrong answers costing you clothes, even video games on Playstation or Wii.

What are your thoughts and ideas? You can vote for one of these or feel free to add your own...PLEASE!
Nudie Game Night
Best "X" Men Night
Another Strip Poker Night
Rimming Party
Massage Party
Sex Toy/Underwear Party
Dick & Balls Party
Cross-Dressing Party
Mixed Gender Party
Adding My own Thoughts---And Please Do In Your Comments!


BiNJGuy4U2 64M  
4 posts
1/8/2018 1:24 pm

I like most of your ideas. I think some could easily be combined to make it fun for all.
as long as everyone all winds up nude sucking & fucking!!!!
I just wish you were in NJ!!


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/9/2018 2:24 pm:
Thank you very much for responding. Actually, I use to live in Trenton and have a favorite aunt in Piscataway, so if you see me headed that way, know something's going to happen in the very near future! lol

jrodd 59M
2319 posts
1/9/2018 3:22 am

A nice little mad hatter British Victorian style tea party , No sex please . Have some crumpets n marmalade with tea !


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/9/2018 2:31 pm:
I actually do have a dinner party every Sunday and an occasional dinner and a movie night at my home. No sex involved. To explain, the dinner party on Sunday is to keep up with as many friends as possible, since most of the good bars have closed here. The guest list changes each week. The dinner and a movie night is because I'm a strong proponent for non-porn gay themed movies, and I feel like if you see them, you may go get them or support the people behind them.

I'm not all about sex...my life is! lol

cocksucker4u67 52M
139 posts
1/9/2018 4:00 am

i love to attend one of your parties


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/9/2018 2:35 pm:
Are you local? Because most of the parties are non-restrictive. As long as you can keep with the theme, follow the rules, remember that we aren't guaranteeing you play, just providing the atmosphere,the place and the opportunity for it to happen, and have a dick, you are more than welcome. Stay away from the strip poker parties though. I pick up the tab for those and can be a bit finicky. lol

tomboysubmissive 54M
76 posts
1/9/2018 6:18 am

Why not have a naked slave serve all your guests then you all could play cards and the winner of each hand gets to tell the naked slave what to do to someone else, or to himself, each time its on thing only.. also you can make a bondage themed night and use the slave to demonstrate bondage, flogging, etc etc


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/9/2018 2:39 pm:
Thank you very much. I guess I only mention the smaller events here. But we have a BARN-ival every year, we do a bath house tour every year, and a College Campus Tour every year. We also have a few other larger parties during the year where these kinds of things occur. Hard to pull off some of these things with our numbers sometimes in a house.lol

akl1234 58M  
48 posts
1/9/2018 1:11 pm

Well you Remy you know my thoughts I have
a fetish about Hot BKL Men like yourself !!!
Have game about fetishes like I do if you win
you can play with a BLK Man you Lose the
BKL guy wins same thing!!!!


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/9/2018 2:43 pm:
Silly boy! LMAO I guess I haven't told you about our Dirty Baker's Dozen Friday nights, where ten black guys meet with three white guys and anything can happen. It was one guy's fantasy but it went so well, we keep doing it. We have a rotating list of black guys, I think we are up to 21, but that list for white guys is long. Currently we are booked solid until May. lol

bjhogan 60M  
307 posts
1/10/2018 2:20 pm

how abOUT a GAY (ME ) LATIN LOVER ? it's in OUR DNA to be PASSIONATE !! INSATIABLE !! we're called HOT BLOODED for a REASON !! i fantasize being USED ! & PASSED AROUND by a GROUP of HOT ! HORNY ! HUNG ! BLACK MEN !! non stop SEXXX !! being stuffed in both my holes ! and taking load after load ! also being VIDEOED !! doing what i do best ! deepthroating ! and riding a big cock ! fags in texASS don't ride HORSES ! WE RIDE COWBOYS !! yee haw ! would lovvvvvvvve to ride a hung ! BLACK STALLION !!


DandR4hands4men replies on 1/11/2018 12:25 am:
LMAO I never pictured you as a Latino! I saw you as a short, skinny blonde guy. Interesting. And Black Beauty horsed around with several cowboys while following the Missouri Gay Rodeo Association. I even have a little, oops! inappropriate here, hung Mr. Ed who like to ride from time to time!

One things for sure, cowboys are damn good rides!!!

bjhogan 60M  
307 posts
1/13/2018 6:43 am

yes ! THEY ARE i lovvvvvvvvve it when i'm BUCKING COWGURL STYLE & REVERSE COWGURL gazing in his EYES !! him playing with my cock and pinching my nipples as i arch my back in sheeeeeeeer delight ! then spinning around ,, so HE CAN SEE his BIG COCK going in & OUT of my HOLE !! spanking me ! as his thrusts go deeper and faster ! untill he erupts and his jizz flows down my crack ! legs !mmmmm ! also ,,, in THIS position ,, i can 69 another man ! total ! intense ! gay plezzzzzure in every way !